Be careful of who you share your heart with thinking they are your friend. A lot of people are wounded today because they trusted someone who they thought was a friend but turned out to be a talebearer. They do not always appear so until you entrust your secret to them or share your heart with them about a situation and they expose you while you thought you are safe with them. It is no wonder a lot of people are closed up today because of the hurt and pain of betrayal from so-called friends and confidants have now made it difficult to accept love from others. I am writing to encourage you to guard your heart by studying people first and study their patterns. Secondly, What you do not want someone to do to you, don’t do it to others. Thirdly, Prayerful seek out your friends and confidants because the truth is we all need someone to open up to. When you find people in your life that you can talk to about your matters and you will not hear it in the market place but the person keeps it to themselves by shielding you- you are one of the most blessed people on earth and such a confidant should be regarded highly also in your life because they are your burden bearers. Sometimes your burden bearers don’t look like your day-to-day friends or call-up buddies, but they are sometimes people in your life that you lightly esteem. In this world today, be the person that will foster joy and happiness and not pain and hurt in people’s lives. Don’t allow your heart to be hurt as well by guarding yourself carefully for out of your heart flows the issues of life. As much as you are looking for freshness, Be the fresh air someone can breath.